Oh wow, I really feel like this a lesson I had to learn the hard way but wish had been talked about more in early recovery. I thought if I could just talk and talk to my family then it would spark some kind of change. It's like I was talking more to change them instead of only focusing on myself. Far more change happened when I quit doing that.
GenX FTW!!!
Yasssss!
Oh wow, I really feel like this a lesson I had to learn the hard way but wish had been talked about more in early recovery. I thought if I could just talk and talk to my family then it would spark some kind of change. It's like I was talking more to change them instead of only focusing on myself. Far more change happened when I quit doing that.
I feel you on that!